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The ‘motherhood penalty’: An accountant (and mother) explains the hidden costs of parenting. Assistant Professor of Accounting at Carleton University, Oriane Couchoux, has conducted a study which reveals that motherhood fundamentally changes how women think about and manage money, often leading to hidden financial costs and long-term disadvantages.
Personal Experience Inspires Study
Oriane Couchoux, a professor at Carleton University, has spent most of her career studying financial management in large organizations. However, after the birth of her first child, she developed an interest in household accounting. Inspired by her own experience as a new mother grappling with unexpected expenses, she decided to explore how motherhood impacts women’s financial decision-making.
The Hidden Costs of Motherhood
Working alongside co-author Gabrielle Patry-Beaudoin from Université de Sherbrooke, Couchoux interviewed Canadian mothers for a study published in Critical Perspectives on Accounting. Beyond the well-known gender income gap and ‘motherhood penalty’ of reduced pay and slower career progression, the study found that mothers often absorb a range of hidden costs that can put them at a long-term financial disadvantage.
Societal Expectations Shape Financial Behaviour
The study revealed societal and cultural expectations of what constitutes a ‘good mother’ significantly influence how women manage their money after becoming mothers. Mothers tend to prioritize their children’s needs over their own, often sacrificing personal leisure activities and long-term financial planning such as retirement savings. These costs are often unshared due to the belief that as primary caregivers, it’s their responsibility to provide for their children.
A Call for Increased Transparency and Conversation
Couchoux suggests that the first step towards addressing this issue is for mothers to track their spending on their children accurately. This includes everyday expenses like food, clothing, and school supplies, as well as larger costs like daycare and transportation. Furthermore, she encourages having explicit financial conversations with partners or co-parents about these expenses, how savings are divided, and how caregiving affects income.
Overcoming Discomfort for Long-Term Financial Security
While acknowledging that conversations about money can be uncomfortable, Couchoux stresses the importance of these discussions in ensuring long-term financial security. Silence and lack of transparency about expenses can inadvertently lead to inequality, even in supportive relationships. By understanding and acknowledging the hidden financial costs of motherhood, families can work towards more equitable financial arrangements.
