Are you looking to host a holiday party that is refreshingly simple, yet undeniably fun? Turn to Dan Pelosi’s style which involves cookies, and nothing else. Say goodbye to elaborate meal plans and hello to a table filled with a variety of homemade cookies. Pelosi, an online recipe developer and cookbook author, has perfected the art of fun, fuss-free entertaining with his annual cookie parties that have become a hit among his 200,000 followers.
Who is Dan Pelosi?
Dan Pelosi, known online as @GrossyPelosi, has a knack for hosting parties that are filled with fun, food, and creativity. The self-described “gay male Pinterest Mom” is known for his elaborate barbecues, candlelit dinners, and festive brunches at his colourful home in New York’s Hudson Valley. He recently released a hybrid cookbook and entertaining guide titled Let’s Party. Yet, for the holiday season, Pelosi prefers to keep things simple with his annual cookie party, a concept that has been highly appreciated and replicated by his followers.
The Concept of Pelosi’s Cookie Parties
Pelosi’s cookie parties are all about simplicity and minimalism. The only food item on the menu is cookies. He eliminates the need for appetizers, cheese boards, or even chips and dip. Pelosi typically bakes between three and six types of cookies for the party. The invitation makes it clear that it’s a cookie-only affair, so guests arrive knowing what to expect. According to Pelosi, clear communication about the food expectations allows guests to feel cared for and prepare accordingly.
Homemade Cookies Only
While Pelosi’s cookie parties have a low entry barrier, there is one rule that guests must abide by: if you’re bringing cookies, they need to be homemade. The party is a celebration of the homemade. Hence, store-bought cookies or ones from fancy bakeries are a no-no. Pelosi encourages guests to bring a dozen or so of their cookies along with the story behind them, no matter their baking skill level. The relaxed environment ensures there’s no competition, just pure enjoyment.
The Signature Butcher Paper Table
One of the unique features of Pelosi’s cookie parties is the use of brown butcher paper as a tablecloth. This makes for a clean and easy surface to lay down cookies and labels. Pelosi has his guests arrange their cookies in neat piles and label them, along with their names and Instagram handles. This not only helps with the identification of cookies and their makers but also aids in fostering connections among the guests.
Decoration and Drinks Stations
Pelosi also sets up a cookie decorating station for guests who might not be comfortable mingling immediately. Another table covered with butcher paper is set up with blank cookies, sprinkles, and frosting. Pelosi also keeps a drinks station separate from the cookie table to prevent spills. He typically prepares minty hot chocolate and a festive non-alcoholic cocktail, with the option of adding liqueur for those who prefer it.
The Goody Bags
When it’s time to bid goodbye, Pelosi encourages his guests to make a to-go bag using brown paper lunch bags. This ensures that no one leaves empty-handed and that Pelosi isn’t left with a surplus of cookies. Pelosi’s unique approach to holiday entertaining offers a refreshing change from traditional parties, focusing on simplicity, creativity, and community.

