In the digital age, online interaction has become a norm, slowly erasing the allure of in-person gatherings. However, the beauty and value of in-person parties, celebrations, and events should not be underestimated. This article examines why we need to party more, and how we can bring back the charm of traditional socializing in our lives.
The Significance of Dressing up and Celebrating
Marlowe Granados, the author of Happy Hour, shares her surprise upon seeing people dressing casually at the opening night of Winter’s Tale at the National Ballet in Toronto. In her view, dressing up for events like the ballet is part of the experience, comparing it to wearing a team’s jersey to a game. Granados suggests that dressing up and celebrating can turn an ordinary night into a memorable occasion.
Dorothy Draper, a renowned 20th-century interior designer, referred to the reluctance to celebrate as “the Will to be Dreary”. In her book Entertaining is Fun!, she describes this as a tendency to shy away from fun activities due to perceived difficulties or doubts about their worth.
Rekindling the Flair for Enjoyment
Granados argues that we need to reignite our “flair for enjoyment”, especially in this digital age where online interaction often replaces physical socializing. She emphasizes that despite the gloom that may hang over us, there are always opportunities to celebrate life. Whether it’s a night at the ballet, a dinner with friends, or a simple gathering at home, every occasion is an opportunity to create joyful memories.
As per the author’s experience, being a social butterfly isn’t everyone’s strength, but it doesn’t mean we can’t enjoy socializing. In fact, the effort to spend quality time with loved ones can make the experience even more enjoyable and memorable.
Creating a Convivial Atmosphere
Granados believes that the key to a successful gathering lies in creating a convivial atmosphere. She suggests that having fun is not only good for you but also infectious. Even if it’s just a simple gathering at a local bar, setting the tone for enjoyment can make the event feel special. She further suggests that if you set the standard for enjoyment, your guests will eagerly match it.
Embracing the Occasion
Granados encourages readers to embrace each occasion and not give in to the “Will to be Dreary”. She cites an example of a birthday party she held at her local bar on a Monday evening. Despite the unusual day, people attended the party and enjoyed themselves, proving that any day can be a day for celebration.
The author uses the film 200 Cigarettes as a lesson to us all. In the film, Martha Plimpton’s character frets that no one will come to her party. She eventually passes out and misses her own party. The lesson here is not to let worries or doubts prevent you from enjoying life’s celebrations.
As Granados puts it, “You’ve gotta say yes to your destiny… Live tonight!” So, let’s embrace the occasion, dress up, and bring back the joy of partying and socializing.
